tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26918651106977712122024-03-13T10:54:35.883-07:00Packed and Sealed and Waiting for the PostKristenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04087379868040432987noreply@blogger.comBlogger76125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2691865110697771212.post-47518993331018066312011-10-17T15:56:00.000-07:002011-10-17T15:56:37.648-07:00WoeAnother lesson learned:<br />
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no matter how desperate you are, don't ever trust your husband to trim your hair. Even if it's a tiny piece that you can't quite reach. You'll end up with the shortest hair you've ever had and will have to decide whether it's worth it to just do him in right now and be done with it.<br />
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End scene.Kristenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04087379868040432987noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2691865110697771212.post-88396587493599221542011-09-14T12:39:00.000-07:002011-09-14T12:39:01.608-07:00Girl Goes To SchoolThis Girl has been begging to go to school since Boy One started kindergarten four years ago. She begged. She planned. She chose and re-chose outfits. She gleaned important information from her brothers as to the skills/songs/behaviors needed to become the model student.<br />
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And, finally, the day arrived.<br />
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</div>There she is, posing for Daddy on the first day of school; five-years-old going on eighteen.<br />
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We all walked down to the elementary school to take the boys to class and put Girl on the bus. Without the slightest hint of fear she tromped straight up to the bus and climbed the steps, talked to her new bus driver about her new tights, and chose the seat closest to the front. Her grin wrapped all the way around her face!<br />
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I sneakily walked down to the kindergarten and watched while the buses unloaded the kids in front of the building, and as the line of children wobbled into the school and drifted towards the foam blocks to waste some time before classes began. I could hardly believe how confidant she was! <br />
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She finally noticed me hiding behind some other parents and acknowledged that I was there, but never needed my help. I ended up helping a few other kids with very wide eyes find their cubbies, their seats, their attendance markers, and open their crayons. Girl barely even noticed me, she was so busy asserting her independence. <br />
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I was surprised it didn't make me sad when she didn't even say good-bye when I left. I guess we both knew how ready she was for this that enormity of it (all my kids in school!) seemed so nonchalant.Kristenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04087379868040432987noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2691865110697771212.post-69231819595470103272011-09-09T11:21:00.000-07:002011-09-09T11:21:12.776-07:00School resumesThe boys are in first and second grade this year, and Girl will be in kindergarten when it starts classes next week. For the first time, we have kids repeating teachers: Girl has Boy Two's previous teacher, and Boy Two has Boy One's previous teacher. Its kind of nice to start out the year with teachers that I know and are actually looking forward to having my kids in their classes!<br />
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Boy Two happens to have his best friend from kindergarten in his first grade class, along with a boy from his T-ball team (yay!) and also the neighbor girl from across the street. His teacher came up to me after the first day of class and was amazed at how terrific Boy Two is. Having never had him in class, she was blown away by his politeness / helpfulness / knowledge of routines / quietness / kindness with other students. He isn't always like that at home, but I love to hear about how great his is elsewhere. He takes school very seriously.<br />
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Except when he brings home the garbage from his lunchbox but accidentally throws away the Tupperware containers. Oops.<br />
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Boy One was a little reserved and distracted by his new second grade class (which I knew would be the case). He has thirty one kids in his class (!) and at least five of them are special needs kids. In talking with the classroom aids, apparently there was an insurgence of special needs kids this year (right after they had their budget cut for classroom aids) and everything seems to be slightly chaotic.<br />
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Boy One doesn't have a lot of friends at school, and hardly anyone in this class whom he remembers from first grade or kindergarten, so instead he's choosing to spend time with his teacher while the other kids are at recess. He's generally much more comfortable with adults than kids but it makes me a little sad for him. I'm glad that he and his brother are so close -- he told his teacher that his brother is his best friend. (Cue mom's tears.)<br />
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There was a minor incident at library time when he wanted to check out books about trains and airplanes from the reference section and he was instead told to look at picture books. Not his idea of fun. But I'm on it; I've got a Plan B for library days.....<br />
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I'm glad that I will have mornings free to volunteer this year. It looks like the school could really use the extra set of hands - especially with the special needs kids. And if there's anything that I feel ready to jump in with, its helping those special needs kids. I guess God knew what He was doing all along.....Kristenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04087379868040432987noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2691865110697771212.post-64203697641353149912011-08-26T13:03:00.000-07:002011-08-26T13:03:32.798-07:00Church Camp @ Cove Palisades<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: right; margin-left: 1em; text-align: right;"><tbody>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Boy Two with a tiny lizard that he caught; one of the hundreds that the kids searched for and chased over the week. We also saw jack rabbits, garter snakes, buzzards and mice, none of which we caught.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Girl and I in the kayak. She fell asleep!</td></tr>
</tbody></table><div style="text-align: left;"></div><span style="color: #38761d;">Our church usually spends one long weekend a summer at a campground and this year it was at Cove Palisades on Lake Billy Chinook in Central Oregon.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #38761d;">While I seem to have (or, at least, want to have) fond memories of tent camping with my family as a kid, I realize as an adult that there is nothing fun about tent camping with small children. Nothing.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #38761d;">That said, the other families all brought their RVs and we happened to benefit from their relative luxury, which made the experience bearable. That, and the camp hosts were a retired couple from our church that made everything easier: from collecting excess wood and giving it to us for our campfires so we didn't have to bring our own; to advising us on which of the shower stalls were the best; to sharing their air pump when we forgot ours; to opening up the laundry facilities early (Laundry facilities! While camping!!) so I could do two loads of laundry the morning my son had an accident in his sleeping bag.</span><br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Boy One in the little raft he commandeered for himself. He was very good with it!</td></tr>
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<span style="color: #38761d;"><b>Camping Cons:</b></span><br />
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<span style="color: #38761d;">The dust. It was everywhere. It coated everything. The kids threw it in the air in handfuls when they had nothing else to do.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #38761d;">Forgetting the pump to your air mattress at home.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #38761d;">Five people in a four person tent.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #38761d;">Not having room for a decent sized ice chest and having to make do with a miniscule plug-in fridge.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #38761d;">Night critters chewing on all your Tupperware containers so that you eventually have to throw them all away.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #38761d;"><span style="color: #38761d;">Husband having to work all day Friday and missing out on a day of fun that he really needed.</span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #38761d;"><span style="color: #38761d;">Exhaustedly falling into bed at 9pm every night, and getting up every morning at 5:45am. I felt so old.</span> </span><br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Girl with one of the many bugs that she found, picked up, and tortured. No fear.</td></tr>
</tbody></table> <b><span style="color: #38761d;">Camping Pros:</span></b><br />
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<span style="color: #38761d;">Five entire days away from home.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #38761d;">Seeing my husband relax enough to enjoy himself - it's been years since he's been that relaxed.</span><br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Boys and their sticks. There were many. They were coveted.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Boy One driving the paddle boat with a dear friend from church.</td></tr>
</tbody></table> <span style="color: #38761d;">My children spending two entire days in the water and loving it.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #38761d;">Life jackets for the whole family!</span><br />
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<span style="color: #38761d;">Our pastor taking each of the kids out on the Wave Runner as many times as they wanted and even letting them 'drive'.</span><br />
<span style="color: #38761d;">Someone sharing their homemade smoked fresh salmon. Deliriously happy.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #38761d;">Finally getting a chance to talk with the two women in our church that I'm closest to. Honestly, it's been years since I've gotten to talk with them.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #38761d;">Boy One getting to take the paddle-boat/ kayak/ raft/ wave runner out as much as he wanted, asserting his independence, learning his strengths, gaining more self confidence. He bloomed before my very eyes.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #38761d;">Taking the kids to explore the Lava Tubes in Bend. We were prepared with torch lights and warm jackets and the kids were delighted with the trek. That is, after the teenagers ahead of us </span><span style="color: #38761d;"> in the cave </span><span style="color: #38761d;">stopped making scary noises.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #38761d;">My husband declaring "This isn't just camping, it's our vacation" and taking us out to dinner at Mazatlan in Madras on Thursday night instead of my having to prepare something back at camp.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #38761d;">Boy Two declaring "I like the green stuff!" and heaping the lettuce onto his tacos.</span><br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Daddy learning how to drive our pastor's Wave Runner.</td></tr>
</tbody></table><span style="color: #38761d;">BLTs with avocado as camp food. Why didn't I think of this earlier?</span><br />
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<span style="color: #38761d;">Scattering quarters around our campsite as we left, knowing that our camp hosts rake the sights and get a thrill out of finding the spare change.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #38761d;"> Knowing there is a Fred Meyer in every Oregon town, just in case you need to make a run to the store one or all of the days that you are vacationing.</span>Kristenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04087379868040432987noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2691865110697771212.post-92115161646722639872011-08-25T10:56:00.000-07:002011-08-25T10:56:37.443-07:00HaircutMy daughter started early making her own hair decisions.<br />
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She wanted pigtails instead of barrettes. Then she wanted butterfly clips with elaborate hair styles (think Princess Leia). Then she decided to grow her bangs out. (Waaahh! She was so adorable with them!) Then she wanted to leave her hair down, with the possible little braids at the front to keep the growing bangs back. Then came, TODAY.<br />
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Cue dramatic music.<br />
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She had been talking for a few weeks about wanting to cut her hair because, let's face it, the twenty minute morning ritual of hair styling was a bit over the top. It's the same morning hair routine that I remember vividly from my own childhood.<br />
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Mom calls for Girl "Let's do your hair."<br />
Girl reluctantly abandons her play and come to sit on the stool. <br />
Mom arranges her arsenal of hair styling supplies and grabs a brush in one hand and hair conditioning spray in the other.<br />
Tilt Girl's head up. <br />
Brush. Brush. Squirt. Brush. Screech. <br />
Tilt Girl's head up. Brush. Screech. Squirt.<br />
Tilt Girl's head up.<br />
Squirt. Screech. Brush.<br />
Finally have all the tangles out. Use the painful end of the comb to make a part. <br />
Redo part. Tilt Girl's head up. Make another part.<br />
Mist hair with water. Comb. Tilt head.<br />
Divide portion of hair into equal thicknesses. Braid - tightly. <br />
Bind ends with rubber band. Rubber band snaps. Find another and bind hair again.<br />
Begin the process again with the other side of the head.<br />
Using various clips, butterflies, bands, bobby pins, hair pins and flowers, design and secure hair in elaborate styles, all the while tilting Girls head up.<br />
Spray liberally with hair spray.<br />
Repeat every day without killing each other.<br />
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Girl decided to end the cycle of madness and cut her hair. And she trusted ME to do it for her!<br />
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After only fifteen minutes she had a quite respectable haircut that I must admit looks <i>charming</i> on her.<br />
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Kristenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04087379868040432987noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2691865110697771212.post-39383975707932963732011-08-24T13:17:00.000-07:002011-08-24T13:17:42.595-07:00Like sands through the hour glass, so are the days of our lives...This morning Girl and Boy Two decided to play Mom and Dad Drive The Car with the mats from the van. <br />
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They arranged the mats in the driveway and Boy Two took the position of Dad in the driver's seat, and Girl sat in Mom's passenger seat. They took this very seriously.<br />
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Boy put his arms up where the steering wheel would be and started the 'drive'. Girl, apparently mimicking Mom, immediately put on pretend hand lotion.<br />
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'Dad' turned the 'car' right, then left, leaning way over to each side like a race car driver. 'Mom' screeched and encouraged 'Dad' that "We're here!" every few seconds.<br />
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Eventually, 'Dad' pulled into his desired destination: McDonald's. Sure, why not.<br />
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'Mom', of course, put on more hand lotion.<br />
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Kristenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04087379868040432987noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2691865110697771212.post-82698598997649573802011-08-23T15:13:00.000-07:002011-08-23T15:13:55.393-07:00I'm still alive, I just have nothing to sayFor some reason, August brings out a blah attitude towards chronicling our lives.<br />
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Not that there is anything altogether exciting to report.<br />
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Girl had her annual echo cardiogram and pacemaker check appointment in the big city. Now that she has turned five she is completely comfortable with whatever they need to do to her. She'll lift her shirt for anyone.<br />
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The pacer technician re-set her pacer to beat as low as 60 bpm and it tops out at 180bpm. I was shown a chart that measures her usage of the device: she regularly gets her heart rate up to 180bpm. I'm gad they didn't have a chart of how high my rate goes. I think she would top me.<br />
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They also re-set the sensitivity so that the lower wires (this is as technical as I get) are no longer reading the upper wires and delivering the wrong information. It makes it appear that she has an arrhythmia. We don't need to add that on, too.<br />
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The echo showed that her heart is still hanging on as they designed it to. Her cardiologist drew us a picture comparing what a normal heart looks like and what her's looks like: it's difficult to compare the two. He commented that Girl's heart is utterly unique: there isn't another one designed like it in the world. <br />
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I don't know why, but this makes me smile.<br />
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A few days after the appointment Girl turned five years old. This made me feel a little odd, since I distinctly remember my own fifth birthday (and, moreover, the evening before when I received not one, but two spankings.). Reflectively, I guess I should have put more effort into making it seem memorable for her but I shamefully admit to being the World's Worst Birthday Planning Mom. <br />
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My children's birthdays usually end about ten minutes before bedtime when I have had just enough time to slap some frosting on the still-hot-from-the-oven cake, cut it into pieces, serve it to the children, then bemoan the apparent facts that not only did I forget to get any ice cream, but I also forget to sing and let them blow out candles.<br />
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My children will probably need therapy after having grown up with me.<br />
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But back to Girl's birthday: she picked out her own presents of Disney Princess play sets (the ones that come with the prince included: she's no dummy), and also was gifted with Princess dresses, a backpack, a thermos, coloring pages, the works. Disney certainly makes its share of money from my daughter's unflagging interest.<br />
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And to close, the cute anecdotal and ongoing conversation between Girl and Boy Two. Girl will declare throughout the house, "Who wants to play the princess is getting MAR-ried?!" And Boy Two will distractedly counter that with, "I'm playing the DINOSAUR learns how to FIGHT!"<br />
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Combine the two only with tremendous caution.Kristenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04087379868040432987noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2691865110697771212.post-90250201169743736012011-08-03T10:05:00.000-07:002011-08-03T10:05:54.729-07:00Parenting Other People's ChildrenThis one is always sticky.<br />
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We have a neighbor girl (let's call her Jill) who was in Boy Two's kindergarten class last year. Jill lives across the street and is the only child living at her house full-time so she is often bored and in need of other children with whom to play. By default, my children have become her playmates of choice.<br />
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Because our little townhouse doesn't really have a back yard to play in, we spend most of our outside time in the common driveway and minimal surrounding landscape shared by our subdivision. Thus as soon as we exit the house, neighbor Jill sees us and clamors for our attention. My children (for the most part) love to play with other children and are flattered that others want to play with them, but tend to end up disappointed with the progression of the playtime.<br />
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For example:<br />
<ul><li>Jill will invite Boy Two and (occasionally) Girl over to her house to play in the yard, but she never invites Boy One (whose feelings are characteristically hurt by this).</li>
<li>Jill will insist on playing with the majority of Boy Two's horses herself, but refuses to even let him touch the 'special' horses that she brings over. Her rules for playing with her personal belongings are numerous and convoluted, subject to change without notice.</li>
<li>When Boy Two is excited he tends to stutter quite a bit, as he has so much that he wants to share so quickly. Jill has taken to mocking his stuttering when she comes over. He either doesn't notice or doesn't know what to do about it, but I have to restrain myself from being mean back to her.</li>
<li>Jill brings her own bike over, but will ride the boys' bikes whenever she feels like it. When Boy One asked with mild protest why she was riding his bike and not her own, she flippantly retorted "Because I felt like it." My kids have been trained to ask before they borrow, and this behavior shocked them all.</li>
<li>When Boy Two excitedly asked Jill if she wanted to know what he named his toy horse, Jill indifferently replied "Something dumb I'll bet." I find it hard not to glare at her. </li>
<li>When Jill asked Girl if she could undo the carefully plaited braid that I had made in her dolly's hair, Girl said no but Jill did it anyway. Then, when she couldn't make the dolly's hair do what she wanted, Jill took out her impatience and annoyance on Girl, as if it were her fault. It was easy to see that this kind of scene had been played out in Jill's house often as she parodied her parents.</li>
<li>Jill refuses to take turns when playing games like Hide and Seek with my kids and often changes the rules to suit herself or just stops playing when she gets bored, which is often. I know this is typical child behavior, but that doesn't make me like it.</li>
</ul>I finally claimed the last straw the other day when Jill asked Girl to bring her certain tools from the garage. I quietly reminded Girl in Jill's hearing that Mama's rules specifically forbid her from getting those tools. Jill waited a minute, and then again asked Girl to bring her the tools, and Girl (ever wanting to be helpful) went off to the garage to find them. <br />
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At this point I began picking up our things and told the children it was time to go inside. Jill asked why, and I crouched beside her and told her that she was not being respectful of me and my rules by asking my children to undermine me, that it hurt my feelings, and that when she behaves like this it makes me not want to let her come over anymore. I chose my words very carefully without any malicious undertones, but I could tell that she really took them to heart. I helped her carry her toys back home and cheerfully thanked her for playing with us, all the while she remained quiet and pensive.<br />
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I greatly abhor reprimanding other people's children for behavior that I feel they should know better then to exhibit. <br />
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I obviously understand that all children have the tendency to want to manipulate circumstances towards their own best interest. I know that the heart is deceitful and desperately wicked. I know that selfishness, self-absorption, self-satisfaction, self-promotion is the natural tendency of the human condition and is displayed by every human being ever conceived. I know that God alone changes the human heart.<br />
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But I don't know what to do about other people's children. How much should I protect my kids from the nasty behavior of other kids? Should I refuse to let them play with all but the most perfect of children? <br />
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Thus far I find it most affective to talk with my children about the behavior of other kids that my children did not like. They admit that it doesn't make them feel good when others don't share their toys. Or when kids change rules for games or not take turns. Or when they say things that aren't kind. This seems to be fairly effective, but I want so much to do more.<br />
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I can't protect them, but what is the best way to guide them? To help them learn to make wise choices and not be swayed by the poor choices of their peers?<br />
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I hate this part of parenting.Kristenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04087379868040432987noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2691865110697771212.post-52468932176466256292011-07-26T17:45:00.000-07:002011-08-03T10:07:43.091-07:00On Being A BoyStep 1<br />
Go for a walk with your parents and alternately run ahead/lag behind to annoy them.<br />
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Step 2<br />
When you've exasperated your parents, reluctantly agree to hold your brother's hand to 'keep an eye on each other.'<br />
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Step 3<br />
After you've grabbed his hand, reach over and take away the stick that he's holding with his other hand.<br />
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Step 4<br />
When he notices, hold the stick as far away as possible so he can't get it back.<br />
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Step 5<br />
Once brother's attention is elsewhere, hit him on the head with his own stick. Just because you can.<br />
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Step 6<br />
At the first sign of his protest, nonchalantly toss the stick over your shoulder so you don't look guilty and drop your brother's hand.<br />
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Step 7<br />
Distractedly puzzle over why your parents are laughing hysterically behind you.Kristenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04087379868040432987noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2691865110697771212.post-53814968904926350182011-07-11T12:19:00.000-07:002011-07-11T12:19:05.097-07:00Who needs a dog?My young son, who had a deep and abiding love for animals and regularly tells me that he has plans to be a farmer and a zoo keeper when he grows up, is desperate for a pet.<br />
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He knows all the reasons that we aren't able to at this time of his life but that hardly makes him feel better.<br />
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I had no idea how desperate he was to have something to call his own until he was out shopping with his grandmother one day.<br />
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Browsing through a Big Lots! to find something worthy to take home, he spotted it up on a shelf and claimed it forever as his. "Look! Pet fish!"<br />
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He has proudly shown this to visitors to our house, as well as talked with the neighbors and school personnel as his pet fish. "They don't move, though," he concedes.<br />
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My sweet little boy.Kristenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04087379868040432987noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2691865110697771212.post-80764476076541789932011-07-06T15:08:00.000-07:002011-07-06T15:21:57.837-07:00Highlights from the holiday<b>1. Husband cleaned the garage. </b><br />
This may seem paltry to the lay reader but it ranks as my favorite episode of Independence Day weekend. A mere ten years have eclipsed since our wedding and this is the first instance of this particular event occurring. And while I didn't exactly broadcast my delight with a bullhorn and sparklers, I was found wriggling with delight at various points throughout the day and grinning stupidly during odd moments.<br />
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<b>2. Impromptu sports with my sisters.</b><br />
While none of us have ever been considered athletic I have always prized their uninhibited alacrity when it comes to games of any kind. Finding people with that kind of willingness is a feat akin to . . . well, something impressively difficult.<br />
My sisters played an enthusiastic game of wiffle baseball with my kids (which requires surprisingly quick adaptability), round-robin seven-man badminton (also consisting of said children), and invented their own version of golf/football/baseball-with-a-net (the only fall out being when the football went reeling twenty feet into the neighbor's yard. Good old Dad got it back.).<br />
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<b>3. The Molalla Buckeroo Parade</b><br />
I've either participated in or attended this parade for at least fifteen of the last twenty years. Bringing my own children adds to the chaos of the event, but now that they are old enough to help carry our unruly load of parade-watching supplies it almost makes up for the five years running where we carried them, carted their stuff, cleaned up their messes, shushed their screaming, dried their tears. Boy Two enthusiastically rushes out (responsibly!) to pick up the handfuls of candy thrown at him and collects it in Grandpa's cowboy hat. Girl sits in her own chair between Mama and Auntie and points out the horses and the girls with the pretty dresses. Boy One eats as many doughnuts as he can get away with. And then we all complain as we schlepp our stuff four blocks back across town to our waiting cars. This is one of my favorite family traditions!<br />
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<b>4. Catching salamanders</b><br />
Grandpa's little koi pond has been decidedly quiet the last few years: even since the last of the fish provided a tasty breakfast for a hungry heron. We assumed it was devoid of all interest until Monday when Girl and I wandered down there to while away the afternoon and were astonished to find a pair of salamanders had set up a nice residence.<br />
I gleefully used the swimming pool net to scoop up the little beings and Girl grabbed them and ran to the house, shouting about her great prize and trying to bring them inside (a decided 'no' from the grandparents put a stop to that). There were only two salamanders to be divided amongst three children, but they were all so delighted that they actually shared.<br />
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For instance, school ended for the boys about two weeks ago, but other than the fact that Boy Two cried <i>for the rest of the day</i> about how much he would miss it there wasn't much to say.<br />
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Also, the boys have learned how to play <b>Battleship</b> (either with each other or myself) and Boy One is actually pretty good. Except that the little pieces have now been lost forever under Boy Two's bed and may never be recovered. Another distraction down the drain.<br />
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I spent last week tirelessly working with said boys to help them gain confidence and their bikes, and now neither one needs the slightest help - they just trundle out to the driveway and ride in circles for hours at a time.<br />
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The boys have collectively lost fifteen teeth in the last two years: three of them in the last two weeks. When Boy Two smiles at us it looks like his brother belted him.<br />
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Boy One's birthday was the first day of summer and, as I have for every birthday in the last four years, I cut and served the cake before I remembered to place the candles. My children may end up in therapy because I just can't seem to remember this vital childhood staple.<br />
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See? A lot of nothingness. But we did have one incident that I thought to share.<br />
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Boy Two, having gained confidence on his bike, was riding circles around his seated brother on said brother's birthday, making smaller and smaller circles around him chanting "I'm not too close."<br />
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Until, fortuitously, the bicycle crashed into seated brother and ran over his head. Poor Boy One. On his birthday he's sporting tire tracks on the back of his neck and an inch-diameter chunk of flesh missing from his right eyebrow.<br />
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The offending bicycle has been removed from service until a proper court-martial can be conducted.<br />
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So much for my hoped-for quiet afternoons.Kristenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04087379868040432987noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2691865110697771212.post-38013212488117525712011-06-06T10:17:00.000-07:002011-06-06T10:17:50.631-07:00Can't Read My Poker FaceEven though I had decided not to mention it, I have since concluded that it's a story that needs to be remembered (mostly for its comic timing) and hence will record it here. I've discovered that as soon as I write something down I promptly forget all about it and only remember when re-reading through old posts. So has my brain become mush as I've aged.<br />
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Myself and some others were set to attend a memorial service on Saturday. <br />
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Unfortunately, our driver was horridly ill with a virus and we left for the drive a little later than we'd planned.<br />
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Fortunately, the driver is fast and we shaved some time on the interstate, even catching up to some friends as they drove!<br />
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Unfortunately, it was mid afternoon and there were hungry people in the party.<br />
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Fortunately, we stopped at a classic burger drive in with <i>terrific</i> fries.<br />
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Unfortunately, the drive-in did not have a bathroom and some of us were forced to drive around an unfamiliar part of town looking for one.<br />
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Fortunately, with everyone sated, we drove to the service with twenty minutes to spare.<br />
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Unfortunately, we found out when we arrived that we were actually fifteen minutes <i><b>late</b></i>.<br />
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Fortunately, the family didn't seem overly upset with us for our mistimed arrival.<br />
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Unfortunately, the service had been held up until we arrived.<br />
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More unfortunately, some of us had anticipated having time to change clothes once we arrived and were mildly mortified to realize that would no longer be possible.<br />
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Most unfortunately, with a churchful of persons looking on (likely disdainfully; I don't know, I avoided eye-contact with <i>everyone</i>) we were led down the center aisle and <i>seated in the front row</i>.<br />
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I must admit that my poker face has gotten better because I don't believe my cheeks even flushed with the mortification that the situation called forth.Kristenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04087379868040432987noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2691865110697771212.post-33200162023964849262011-06-02T08:48:00.000-07:002011-06-02T08:48:54.832-07:00The Way to a Man's Heart<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">It is a truth universally acknowledged that when all else fails, the promise of food will undermine a man's firm resolve.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">Women exposed this many years ago. I believe Eve first demonstrated the theory to rancorous applause in the Garden.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">And though as mothers we don't set out to teach our daughters the verity of this theology, even the littlest of girls inherently understand it's power.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">Girl demonstrated this to my profound awe and amusement on Monday morning as she attempted to gain her brothers' compliance to play Tea Party.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />
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</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">I had purchased a box of cookie-shaped cold cereal for her occasional use in tea parties and she admirably put them to good use. The boys animatedly set up the blanket and arranged the stuffed animals around themselves, and even gladly submitted to Girl's bossy 'rules' about proper behavior. And all for the sake of a cookie.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br />
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Apparently, he had a petit mal seizure during library.<br />
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Nobody really noticed until he was supposed to stand up and choose a book before going back to class and he couldn't stand up without help from his friends. Then, instead of choosing a book, he kind of stood around with a blank stare. Eventually, the other kids were sent back to class and his assistant helped him choose a book and walked him back, where he was relatively normal for the rest of the day.<br />
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I talked with his teacher, and then with him about the event and was relieved to know exactly what they were talking about -- I've experienced enough of them myself to know how to describe them. The school was relieved that they didn't need to worry too much about handling them. Boy One was relieved that Mama knows all about these incidents that are happening to him, could describe them when he couldn't, and that he doesn't have to be scared because Mama has them and there's nothing to be scared about.<br />
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I just want to cry.<br />
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With his autism, he isn't able to communicate <i>anything</i> about these seizures, either during or afterwards. And its almost impossible to tell the difference between when he's having a seizure (and seems detached, giving you blank stares and seeming not to hear you) and when he's just having another autistic memory/communication lapse.<br />
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The shining light at the end of the tunnel is that the diet that should lighten his autism should also help to lighten his seizures, and he seems <u>terribly</u> excited that he and Mama have special foods were going to eat this summer that will help our brains not to get fuzzy anymore. He's been telling other people about it like it's a fantastic secret pact that we have. <br />
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I really didn't want to pass this on the my kids. They have enough issues to deal with.Kristenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04087379868040432987noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2691865110697771212.post-61238874577502191222011-05-13T10:57:00.000-07:002011-05-13T10:57:11.481-07:00Mother's Day<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiSa_AagGu_14a0z_2WUgoVrW8pUrKfBrAs7Cb0FU_0iKHPs6BgZxN2NZM7sy_rKvcUcBsUEUQFt8NWAat693MJIxxvaX4IIHM0W9URJTex7hJw795TKh311IdpxfTSLTtrCsLjdnv92mg/s1600/100_1318.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiSa_AagGu_14a0z_2WUgoVrW8pUrKfBrAs7Cb0FU_0iKHPs6BgZxN2NZM7sy_rKvcUcBsUEUQFt8NWAat693MJIxxvaX4IIHM0W9URJTex7hJw795TKh311IdpxfTSLTtrCsLjdnv92mg/s320/100_1318.JPG" width="240" /></a></div>This was my Mother's Day gift (technically from my 'children' but bought and paid for by my Husband).<br />
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Yes, it is a clothes drying rack.<br />
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No, it is not romantic or thoughtful or an addition to any of my hobbies (unless you can count laundry as a hobby of mine. Which, I guess, may fall in to that category.).<br />
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But it is practical. And I requested it two months in advance. And I got to pick it out at IKEA on Saturday. And Husband put it together on Sunday night.<br />
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I am anticipating saving oodles of money on our electric bill this summer (and maybe <i>forever</i>).<br />
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Our lovely dryer needs at least two (sometimes, three) cycles to dry a load of clothes. I'm assuming it's because of lint buildup in the exhaust tunnel (or something like that but in more technical terms). Because I do not anticipate this <b>ever</b> correcting itself I concluded that my best recourse was to dry each load of clothes for a mere twenty-thirty minutes and then hang them up to finish the process.<br />
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Additionally, many of our clothes are of polyester or blended fabrics and need not be put in the dryer at all.<br />
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Hence, the drying rack!<br />
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My lack of a real laundry room (a feeble but luxurious dream of mine) means that the rack is temporarily housed in the upstairs loft, a.k.a. Husband's office. But since the ironing board already claimed permanent residence there I believed that the rack could keep it company in the midst of all the dusty books and stuffy computer equipment.<br />
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It is now happily and busily employed.<br />
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I opened my garage and encouraged them to try out and use any of our (Husband's) large collection of squirt guns.<br />
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I generously manned the water hose and compliantly filled <u>all</u> squirt guns as often as needed.<br />
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I pumped up the large guns so that all the kids had to do was pull the trigger.<br />
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I brought out dry towels and wiped faces that were drenched by friendly (or not-so-friendly) fire.<br />
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I may or may not have chased down a neighbor boy who shot me once too often in the face and wrestled the gun from his grip, only to turn around and use it on him yelling "Death to the opposition!"<br />
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Squirt guns are not known to bring out my best side.Kristenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04087379868040432987noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2691865110697771212.post-26438638282748618372011-05-13T10:04:00.000-07:002011-05-13T10:04:26.472-07:00The trouble with an active imaginationBoy Two and Girl have matured to the age where they are using fewer and fewer toys when they play together and instead are relying on their imaginations for drama.<br />
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Their favorite thing to play recently is 'Kitty and Doggy'. Girl plays the part of the cat and chases/is chased by Doggy (Boy Two), in addition to giving him advice on whatever else she thinks should be added to the script: climbing, hiding, eating, having babies, etc.<br />
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They have both taken to bringing their imaginary animals with them to the elementary school several times a week. Those imaginary animals have been causing so much trouble in the classroom than I have taken to requiring them to tie the animals (monkeys, horses, dragons) up at the bike rack outside the school before we go in.<br />
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These imaginary animals are so real to my children that they even fooled Daddy last Sunday.<br />
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Girl and Boy Two were playing downstairs when Girl came upstairs, crying, to find us as we readied for church.<br />
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She tearfully explained to Daddy that Boy Two's monkey's had chased her out of the boy's room where she was playing with them and it wasn't nice. Daddy, ready to take away the offending monkeys, went downstairs where he ran into Boy One (who previously had nothing to do with this case whatsoever), who eagerly volunteered to show him where the drama unfolded and the offending monkeys were hiding.<br />
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Entering the boy's room and finding nothing, Daddy confusedly questioned the Boy Two about the monkey's whereabouts and was informed that the offending monkeys had left the room and run away. Not knowing what else to do, Daddy instead informed the children that they were restricted to their rooms until it was time to leave for church.<br />
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Daddy came upstairs to find me sniggering in our room, where I nonchalantly mentioned "It sure is difficult to discipline imaginary animals, isn't it?" Finally registering the reality of the situation, Daddy threw up his hands in exasperation with his impossible children.<br />
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I had a very active imagination as a child and understand that my children come by it naturally, although I was always too embarrassed to involve my parents in the charade. But even I wasn't so taken with pretending that I cried about it.<br />
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Girl came to us in inconsolable tears several months ago. In between gasps, we managed to wring the explanation from her: she had been pretending to blow a roomful of imaginary bubbles when her <i>heartless</i> older brother came along and <b>popped them all</b>.<br />
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Not knowing what else to do, I attempted to squelch my giggles and suggested that she blow some more.<br />
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This is another side of parenting that I just can't seem to get the hang of.Kristenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04087379868040432987noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2691865110697771212.post-81980955268902547032011-05-11T10:36:00.000-07:002011-05-11T10:36:28.705-07:00Memorizing Bible VersesI enjoy manipulating my children's minds. I may as well just admit it.<br />
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This year for our church's Junior Church program the other teachers and I are having the kids attempt to memorize one verse a week for fifty-two weeks. Each week the verse must have <i>some</i> correlation to the week's lesson in order for the kids to grasp a portion of it's context.<br />
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I was asked to help the teacher from the month of May come up with a verse to use for Mother's Day and came up with about seven little-used choices that supplied the word 'mother' and submitted them for approval.<br />
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With four of us voting, we chose Proverbs 30:17:<br />
<div style="text-align: center;"><i>The eye the mocks the father and scorns to obey the mother will be plucked out by the ravens of the valley and eaten by the vultures.</i></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: left;"><i><b>Gross</b></i>. But very cool. And a great illustration.</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: left;">I wrote the verse out at home for my children to read and memorize if they so choose and in less than twenty minutes Boy Two had read it/talked about it so much that he knew it by heart. </div><div style="text-align: left;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: left;">He is a great comrade to all things animal and is learning many tidbits about vultures in conjunction with this verse. We have also spent the last few days discussing what 'mocks' and 'scorn' mean, along with 'obey'.</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: left;">Cut to yesterday when I was in his room confronting him about why he didn't put away the clean clothes/pick up the toys/make his bed like I had asked him to <u>three hours previous</u>. </div><div style="text-align: left;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: left;">"Did you obey Mama?"</div><div style="text-align: left;">". . . no . ."</div><div style="text-align: left;">"What happens when we don't obey?"</div><div style="text-align: left;">*<i>quick intake of breathe and hands cover his face* </i>"I don't want you to pluck my eye out!"</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: left;">Aaahh. Comprehension, how chilling you are to my children.</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: left;">I admit, I'm still sniggering about this.</div><div style="text-align: left;"><br />
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Some very helpful retirees came over from the local Senior Center and assisted the kindergarteners with various 'green' tasks like planting seeds in paper cups of dirt and things like that.<br />
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At the end of the day each child was given not only a planted seed, but their very own <b>worm</b>! Boy Two was thrilled. There were very specific instructions about the worm including the tidbit <i>be sure to release your worm into the dirt within two days as worms can't live in little plastic containers and don't make for good pets. Especially if they aren't fed.</i> I may or may not have added a few minor embellishments to the instructions.<br />
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Fast forward a week and I notice the container sitting on the dresser in the boy's room hidden by a pirate ship, a dinosaur, and a pile of drawings of trains and of wild animals eating each other. <br />
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I promptly forgot about it.<br />
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Another week or two goes by until I remember that poor worm and go looking for it on Saturday <i>about three weeks after it came home</i>.<br />
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Lo and behold, the boys had discovered the previously misplaced container and had decided to give it a position of authority on the windowsill - possibly so it could get enough light to grow. How thoughtful.<br />
<i>Ew</i>.<br />
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I did, in fact, open it up and look for the worm in the vain hope that it may have survived the three weeks of humid, recycled air and lack of food and water.<br />
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Ironically, either worms decompose quickly when they die or it found a way of escape and is now living in my laundry room because <u>I couldn't find a trace of it</u> in the dirt.<br />
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That's a satisfying way to end a story.Kristenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04087379868040432987noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2691865110697771212.post-60094539477363891202011-04-30T10:02:00.000-07:002011-04-30T10:02:05.508-07:00AntsLet me just start by proclaiming that of all the pests to invade one's home, sugar ants are my favorite.<br />
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They don't really bite. You can't hear them scampering through the walls. They don't have numerous long, hairy legs that they use to chase you through the house. Finding them drowned in your bedside water glass in the morning does not cause you to shriek and throw up, wondering how many you unknowingly swallowed during the night.<br />
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Sugar ants are good pests.<br />
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That being said, I still prefer to let them live outside as opposed to in(side. Sorry, I couldn't leave the preposition hanging so perilously.).<br />
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When they began to appear (in my <i>bedroom</i>, no less) about a month ago, I forgave them and let them have their space. After all, they weren't really bothering me and there were only a few here and there. Let them realize there isn't anything to eat and they'll leave. Right?<br />
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But then they found something. A lone raisin that had tumbled under Husband's dresser and lain forgotten. At least, it was forgotten by the humans. The ants apparently called all their friends for a picnic.<br />
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Realizing on Saturday morning that they planned to stay forever I mixed some honey with about 1/4 cup of Borax and dabbed it on three pieces of cardboard aligned on the windowsill.<br />
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Within an hour the party was accumulating more and more friends, and they were calling their friends, who were selling everything they had to invest in tainted honey.<br />
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By mid afternoon it was a free-for-all. It was everything I could do to keep Girl from picking them up and taking them to her room, calling them her 'bug friends'.<br />
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Tuesday morning I observed one or two on patrol, giving the impression of grogginess and the aftermath of the collapse of a colony. Or maybe that was just my imagination.<br />
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Husband wants me to toss the no-longer-useful bait, but I intend to wait at least a week. The drowned carcass of a greedy ant tops the largest of the temptations and I envision its bloated remains dissuading any would-be tourists from staking a claim on my bedroom in the near future.<br />
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Some of the things that, even as an adult, I'm afraid of and have yet to conquor: large-ish spiders, making phone calls, going somewhere new and talking to people that I've never met (and acting like I'm not scared).<br />
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For persons who aren't afraid of these things, those particular fears seem irrational and almost endearing (or stupid, take your pick). But for myself, the fear is quite palpable.<br />
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I was reminded of this idea last weekend when Husband and I took our children to the playground for the express purpose of teaching the boys (ages six and seven) to ride their bikes without training wheels.<br />
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We have been encouraging them to learn this since the previous summer but our success was limited to nonexistent. Training wheels, to them, meant that they could take no action and still be safe. You can't even fall down when standing still when one has training wheels - what's not to love?!<br />
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But Husband refused to put the training wheels back on the bikes at the end of our camping trip last August and so the bikes have slumped against the back wall of the garage since then, much to the chagrin of our boys who have <i>begged</i> for the training wheels back.<br />
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But last week when a neighbor girl came over to play she showed off her cycling skills on her two wheeler and Boy Two suddenly didn't want to be the pathetic neighbor boy who couldn't do what a girl six months younger than him can handle. Peer pressure has its positive side.<br />
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There is a large, fenced blacktop at the elementary school and we walked the boys there with their bikes with the attitude of "you're going to learn this if it kills you." Which, in hindsight, is not the best motivator for a child who is under the impression that it really <i>will</i> kill them.<br />
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Some of the advice we gave them (as we held on to their bicycle seats and ran in circles) must have sounded slightly ludicrous: "Pedal faster! You'll have less a chance of falling over." "Don't go straight, turn; its easier to balance when you're not going in a straight line." "Don't look at the ground, look ahead to where you're going." "Don't laugh at Grandad's jokes, it just encourages him."<br />
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Not all the advice was specifically tailored to bike riding, but you have to slip it in when you can.<br />
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By the time we had been there for an hour Boy Two had stopped trembling with fear and was riding without help! And once Boy One realized that Boy Two was besting him at something he tried harder and realized that he could do it, too. Success!<br />
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Once they both realized that they didn't have to be afraid of the bikes, that fear was the only thing keeping them from doing what they wanted, they were never more confidant!<br />
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<tr style="color: #0b5394;"><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">And yes, that is me in the mirror, taking a picture of myself. I have zero talent for photography.</td></tr>
</tbody></table>Kristenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04087379868040432987noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2691865110697771212.post-76080719210025352102011-04-26T16:38:00.000-07:002011-04-26T16:38:37.791-07:00T-Ball, Take Two April has arrived in all it's rainy, misty, mucky, just-shy-of-freezing glory and y'all know what that means: baseball!<br />
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Boy One played (or, at least, attempted) rookie baseball last spring and made it through fairly unscathed. And considering that Boy Two was <i>hugely</i> jealous that he wasn't able to participate then, we signed them both up for this year and they are playing on the same team.<br />
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We are with the same coach as last year and many of the same kids are on the team so Mama is feeling pretty <strike>secure </strike>confidant about the expected routine. However, I may take those words back in about a month.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Boy Two demonstrating his run through first base. Good centering.</td></tr>
</tbody></table>Boy Two started (and ended) the first day of practice by jumping up and down with giddy excitement for an entire hour. Yay! Baseball!! He may not have paid that much attention to what the coaches were advising him, but his enthusiasm was so palpable you could spread it on a piece of toast.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">My boys like each other a lot. At least, for now.</td><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><br />
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</tbody></table> Boy One, feeling pretty sure of himself (since, you know, he did this <i>last</i> year), spent less time doing what he was supposed to and instead acted the part of the team clown: silly voices, silly antics, silly running moves (oh, wait, he may have gotten those from me).<br />
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Sure, why not.<br />
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Boy One didn't even have a chance.<br />
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Sadly, this morning there wasn't a big shiner around his eye to parade around school as a badge of honor, which would have been the only truly acceptable recourse to the tragedy. <br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">A token picture of Girl: for her fans.</td></tr>
</tbody></table>Kristenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04087379868040432987noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2691865110697771212.post-87149472448235875842011-04-21T11:36:00.000-07:002011-04-21T11:36:55.743-07:00Biblical LegosI was teaching our church's Junior Church last Sunday and, seeing as it was Palm Sunday, I told the kids the story of the Triumphal Entry and the other events that occurred during Passover Week in Jerusalem. <br />
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Because keeping the attention of a dozen children between the ages 3-8 is difficult, I brought in Lego men to use as Jesus and his disciples.<br />
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Boy Two was so enthralled with this idea that he came home and, on his own, recreated the story himself, adding the scene of Jesus' arrest and crucifixion.<br />
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<span style="color: #cc0000;">Here we have the Garden of Gethsemane and all the disciples sleeping. Also, the 'donkey' is tied under the tree. </span><br />
<span style="color: #cc0000;">Sorry about the light reflecting off the coffee table: I'm not a great photographer. </span> <br />
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<span style="color: #38761d;">Notice the crowd of soldiers and religious leaders coming to get Jesus in the garden. Judas Iscariot is the one with the eye-patch: it causes him appear more menacing</span>.<span style="color: #38761d;"> </span><br />
<span style="color: #38761d;">We replaced the heads of the ' 'Robin Hood' figures with the heads of the pirate men to give them the facial hair that would make the figures more authentic to first century Judaism. </span><br />
<span style="color: #38761d;">Believability is key. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #351c75;">And here is Jesus, on his cross that needs a wooden block to prop it up.</span> <span style="color: #351c75;">I was very impresses that Boy Two came up with this himself.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #351c75;">Although we couldn't finish the story because we didn't make the cave tomb.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #351c75;">But don't worry: we still have three days before he needs it! </span>Kristenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04087379868040432987noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2691865110697771212.post-50677251586466702292011-04-15T19:47:00.000-07:002011-04-15T19:47:42.930-07:00No news is good newsWish I had something interesting to say for this week, but all that comes to mind is <b>rain</b>.<br />
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As this particular weather phenomenon is no news to anyone, I think I'll skip it.<br />
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Got called to the school office on Tuesday morning for another 'intervention' with my oldest - wish he wasn't so smart. When he doesn't want to be in class (e.g. his aid is ill and he has a substitute) he'll go to the office and tell them he's ill and needs to go home. Then I rush down and talk him down from the brink so he can head back to class.<br />
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The office staff (as well as most of the teachers) now all know me by first name.<br />
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Finally bought a crochet hook, borrowed some yarn from my mother and picked up <u>Crocheting For Dummies</u> at the library. I have a pattern for a cardigan that I <i>really</i> want to own and couldn't find anyone to make it for me so I guess I'm doing it myself.<br />
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I don't envision the process moving along very quickly as I haven't crocheted since Girl Scouts when I made a very lumpy yellow rectangle dish cloth. My mom used it for years and I always hated seeing it next to the sink. I hope the cardigan doesn't end up as a dishrag as well.<br />
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And with that, I've exhausted all the news for this week. Maybe with the hoped-for return of nice weather I'll have more to say next week. After all, baseball practice begins on Monday!Kristenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04087379868040432987noreply@blogger.com1